Congratulations on your precious new bundle of joy! This is the beginning of such a beautiful adventure, filled with love, laughter, endless snuggles, and yes – maybe a few sleepless nights! We know this is an incredibly special and exciting time, but we also understand that preparing for your baby’s arrival can sometimes feel overwhelming. That’s why we want to introduce you to a wonderful, heartwarming alternative to a traditional baby shower that blends celebration and preparation in the most meaningful way: a nesting party!

 

What’s the Big Egg-spectation?

 

As the arrival date gets closer, the urge to ‘nest’ will be felt by all expected parents! This is the instinctual need to create a space that’s secure and comfortable for your little one. Traditionally, this is something that parents work on in their own time while juggling the other thousand (or so) important details that need to be arranged. 

However, with a nesting party, your loved ones can help you tick off some of those to-do’s from your list! A nesting party combines the natural urge to ‘nest’ with the acts of service from your loved ones. This offers a way for loved ones to pitch in with essential tasks and jobs that will make your life easier for you. It’s a beautiful way to turn the need to nest into a shared experience, making your home feel even more warm, safe, and welcoming for your tiny tot.

 

Flap Into Action and Invite Your Guests

 

If this sounds like something that speaks to your heart, planning a nesting party is simple! Nesting parties are all about surrounding yourself with your village, while keeping things cozy and intimate. But we know that everyone’s support network looks different! Our best advice? Focus on inviting close friends and family – the people who make you feel comfortable, cared for, and at ease as they lend a hand. Bonus points if they’re the type to roll up their sleeves and pitch in… but we won’t judge if someone’s version of ‘helping’ is just holding the snacks – that’s a pivotal role too! 

 

Don’t forget to let your guests know this might be a different type of party from what they’ve seen before when sending out your nesting party invitations! Make a note of the general tasks that you hope to tackle, as well as all the usual important details like the date, time, location, and gift registry.

 

 

Birds Of A Feather, Delegate Together

 

Start by creating a list of tasks that you’d love a hand with – whether it’s folding tiny onesies, setting up a cozy corner for late-night feedings, preparing some freezer meals, or just organizing your baby cabinet to be spick and span. It can be hard to ask for help, but that’s what makes a nesting party so special; it’s a way for your loved ones to show up for you, just as you would for them!

Trust us, having your friends and family close will make those otherwise tedious chores much more fun. Everyone has their strengths, so don’t be afraid to play into that and ask certain people to complete specific tasks!

 

The Nesting Essentials You Can’t Wing

 

To make the day go as smoothly as possible, it’s important to stock up on supplies. Want a team working on a food prep station at your party? Remember to grab some aprons and fill up your pantry with all the necessary ingredients. Have to get all your baby’s new clothes and blankets washed and tidied away in the baby cabinet? Be sure to buy some baby-safe detergent for your helpers to use. Need some tools to put that crib together? Stop by your local hardware store to pick them up before the party starts.

Let’s also not forget, this is a party! So, get your playlist of groovy tunes sorted, ensure that your snack supply for your guests is topped up, and dig out your (comfy) dancing shoes. 

 

 

Attention Flock!

 

Shout-out to all the guests! When attending a nesting party, remember that you should be prepared to roll up your sleeves and get busy. This is your time to show your support and love for the new parents in your life. 

Gifts aren’t typically required at a nesting party unless indicated by the parents, as your time and support are absolutely the main focus here. However, if you’d like to get the new parents something special, think cozy and practical gifts! For example, reusable baby bibs, burp cloths, baby bodysuits, baby blankets, and bags are always a welcome addition to any parent’s collection. We also have to mention our new favorite DIY-trend: diaper bouquets. This fabulous gift idea is both practical and unique, so for an easy step-by-step guide, take a peek at “How to Make a Diaper Bouquet.”

Make Your Nest a Hoot

 

You don’t have to throw a nesting party without a little flair either! If you’d like to combine the beautiful decorations of a baby shower with your own nesting party, you absolutely can. While the focus is typically on reducing the stress that comes with hosting a traditional baby shower, this is your party and you can make it glam if you want to! So, if you’d like some inspiration for your nesting shower theme, check out “Unique Baby Shower Decoration Ideas to Take Your Celebration to the Next Level.”

 

While we want those chores done and dusted, the aim of the day is to create a slice of relaxation for the parents too! Don’t let the party be all work and no play. Organize relaxing activities to take place after the hard work is done and everyone has finished up their chores! Think a movie marathon with obligatory popcorn buckets, a soothing at-home spa relaxation with face masks, or a cozy pajama party. Balance this busy time with some well-deserved fun and bonding!

 

Thank Them for Soaring to the Occasion

 

After the party, take the time to honor those who have supported you and your new family member. Your loved one’s presence has made this journey even more significant, so send some gratitude their way with a thank you card!

 

There are lots of other exciting, and thoughtful, favors you could use instead of cards too. For instance, if tea is your vice, choose a mug that expresses your heartfelt gratitude. You can also curate a personalized gift bag for friends who attend the nesting party, filling it with lovely treats to show appreciation. Alternatively, a precious photo magnet card would be a wonderful addition to any family member’s fridge. 

There’s absolutely no right or wrong way to celebrate this momentous moment in your life, but we hope this guide has given you some ideas on how to create a nesting party filled with the love and support of your village!